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PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS, PARENTING DISPUTES, AND CONSENT ORDERS

Parenting matters can be one of the most stressful and emotional parts of separation. Whether you are trying to make arrangements for your children, dealing with a dispute with the other parent, or considering formal parenting orders, our team is here to help you navigate the process with confidence.

Our Melbourne family law team includes an Accredited Family Law Specialist with the Law Institute of Victoria, providing clients with experienced, strategic and child focused guidance in parenting and child custody matters.

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WHY CHOOSE RAMSDEN FAMILY LAW

At Ramsden Family Law, we have spent the past 5 years developing a recognised and experienced family law team dedicated to supporting clients through complex parenting, child custody, and family law matters.

  • Our Melbourne Partner, Michelangelo Benedetti, is an Accredited Family Law Specialist with the Law Institute of Victoria, a respected accreditation requiring solicitors to complete a rigorous assessment process.
  • Ramsden Family Law has been recognised in Doyle’s Guide as one of Australia’s leading family law firms between 2016 and 2026.
  • We use modern legal technology to improve efficiency, streamline our processes, and deliver practical, cost-conscious legal services.
  • For eligible clients, deferred payment options may be available through JustFund, allowing you to access legal support now and pay at a later stage once your matter settles.

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ACTING IN THE BEST INTEREST OF YOUR CHILD

In parenting matters, the most important consideration under Australian family law is the best interests of the child.

When determining parenting arrangements, a range of factors may be considered, including:

  • the child’s relationship with each parent and other important people in their life
  • the need to protect children from abuse, neglect, family violence, or other harm
  • each parent’s ability to support the child’s emotional, developmental, and day to day needs

At Ramsden Family Law, we carefully assess these factors to help clients work towards practical parenting arrangements that support their child’s wellbeing and long term best interests.

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PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS

After separation, many parents are unsure about their rights and responsibilities regarding their children.

It is important to understand that, even where there are no Court Orders in place, one parent is generally not entitled to unreasonably prevent the other parent from spending time with the children or being involved in important decisions affecting them.

Similarly, equal shared care arrangements are not automatically guaranteed under Australian family law. Parenting arrangements are determined based on what is in the best interests of the child and what is practical and appropriate in the circumstances.

Every family situation is different. Our team provides clear and practical advice to help parents understand their options and work towards arrangements that support both the children and the family moving forward.

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TYPES OF CHILD CUSTODY AGREEMENTS

In Australia, child custody agreements are more commonly referred to as parenting arrangements.

These arrangements set out where children will live, how they will spend time with each parent, and how important decisions about their upbringing will be made.

Parenting arrangements may be recorded in a Parenting Plan or formalised through Consent Orders, depending on the circumstances and level of certainty required.

Our Melbourne parenting lawyers can advise you on whether a Parenting Plan or Consent Orders may be more appropriate for your circumstances.

PARENTING PLANS

A Parenting Plan is a written agreement between parents regarding the care arrangements for their children after separation.

Parenting Plans can be useful where parents:

  • require flexibility
  • are trialling care arrangements
  • are still negotiating longer term arrangements
  • have work or personal circumstances that may change over time

While Parenting Plans can provide guidance and structure, they are not legally enforceable.

Many parents choose to begin with a Parenting Plan before later formalising arrangements through Consent Orders.

CONSENT ORDERS

Consent Orders are formal agreements approved by the Court and are legally binding and enforceable.

Consent Orders may address matters including:

  • who makes long term decisions for the children
  • when the children spend time with each parent
  • changeover arrangements
  • communication between parents
  • communication between the children and the other parent
  • interstate or overseas travel arrangements

Consent Orders can provide parents with greater certainty and a clear framework moving forward, particularly where there is conflict or concern that arrangements may not otherwise be followed.

TYPES OF CHILD SUPPORT AGREEMENTS

In Australia, there are several child support agreements that can be formalised between you and your former partner, including Binding Child Support Agreements and Limited Child Support Agreements.

BINDING CHILD SUPPORT AGREEMENTS

A Binding Child Support Agreement allows parents to set out their child support arrangements in a legally enforceable way. Before entering into this type of agreement, both parties must obtain independent legal advice. A binding agreement can only be changed or brought to an end through a new agreement or a court order, making it a more secure and long term option for managing child support.

LIMITED CHILD SUPPORT AGREEMENTS

A Limited Child Support Agreement offers a more flexible approach to child support arrangements. Unlike a binding agreement, legal advice is not required before it is created. These agreements can be changed in certain circumstances, which makes them a practical option for parents who want an arrangement that allows for future adjustments.

PROTECTING THE BEST INTERESTS OF YOUR FAMILY

Our team has extensive knowledge of the Family Law Act and how it applies to child custody and parenting matters. We provide legal solutions designed to protect your child’s best interests while protecting your rights as a parent.

Whether you need advice on parenting arrangements, support with a child custody dispute, or guidance on your legal rights and responsibilities, we deliver clear, practical, and professional legal support.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

I HAVE HEARD ABOUT SHARED PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY. DOES THAT MEAN THE CHILDREN WILL SPEND EQUAL TIME WITH EACH PARENT?

Not necessarily. Shared parental responsibility relates to decision making about important issues affecting the children, such as education, medical treatment, and religion. It does not automatically mean the children will live with each parent equally or spend half their time with each parent.

The arrangements for where children live and how much time they spend with each parent depend on many factors, including what is in the best interests of the children. Every family situation is different, and equal time arrangements are not guaranteed. It is important to obtain legal advice about what arrangements may be suitable in your circumstances. Contact us today to discuss.

AT WHAT AGE IN AUSTRALIA CAN A CHILD DECIDE WHO THEY LIVE WITH?

Under the Family Law Act 1975, there is no specific legal age at which a child can decide where they will live. All decisions are based on what is in the child’s best interests.

While a child cannot make the final decision, their views may become increasingly important as they get older. The Court may consider the child’s views depending on their age, maturity, and level of understanding, however, the child’s wishes are only one factor taken into account.

I AM A GRANDPARENT. CAN I APPLY TO SPEND TIME WITH MY GRANDCHILDREN?

Yes. Under Australian family law, children are encouraged to maintain meaningful relationships with important people in their lives, including grandparents and other relatives, where it is in their best interests.
Grandparents may be able to apply to the Court for orders allowing them to spend time with or communicate with their grandchildren. If you are experiencing difficulties maintaining contact, legal advice can help you understand your rights and available options.

DO I NEED TO GO TO COURT TO SORT OUT PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS?

Not always. Many parenting matters can be resolved through negotiation, mediation, or Family Dispute Resolution without the need for Court proceedings.

If an agreement is reached, it can be formalised through Parenting Plans or Consent Orders. Court proceedings are generally considered a last resort when parties cannot reach an agreement or it becomes urgent.

CAN I STOP THE OTHER PARENT FROM SEEING THE CHILDREN IF THERE ARE NO COURT ORDERS IN PLACE?

Generally, no. The law recognises that, where safe and appropriate, children benefit from having a relationship with both parents. Preventing a child from seeing a parent without a valid reason may be viewed negatively by the Court.

There are exceptions where concerns exist regarding a child’s safety or wellbeing, including situations involving family violence, substance abuse, neglect, or other serious risks. In these circumstances, it is important to seek legal advice promptly rather than making unilateral decisions.

Depending on the situation, arrangements such as supervised visits or urgent Court applications may be appropriate to ensure the child’s safety while preserving their relationship with both parents where possible.

CAN PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS BE CHANGED AFTER ORDERS ARE MADE?

Yes. Parenting arrangements may be changed if both parties agree or if there has been a significant change in circumstances affecting the children or the parents.

If agreement cannot be reached, an application may need to be made to the Court to vary the existing Orders.

I AM WANTING TO RELOCATE WITH THE CHILDREN. DO I NEED THE OTHER PARENTS PERMISSION?

If you are planning to move with the children, particularly over a significant distance, interstate, or overseas, you should inform the other parent. Relocation can affect the children’s ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents and may also involve important decisions such as changing schools.

Short distance moves are usually less problematic, although you may still need to provide updated contact details unless there are genuine safety concerns.

Before making any firm relocation plans, it is recommended that you obtain legal advice. In some cases, the other parent may apply to the Court to prevent the move or seek orders requiring the children to return. Early legal advice can help avoid unnecessary disputes and costs.